If you adore sex, then it’s no surprise that after four years of “fine” relations you’re bored, bored, bored. Are you tired of him, or is it your life together that feels stale?

Guilt and boredom are boner-killers extraordinaire. You’re not going to want to bone him if you’re not happy in your life with him. Do you have friends you enjoy, and are you seeing them as much as you need to?

And not just in where they go on Friday night or what they have for dinner.

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Hi Jessica, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about four years. It’s horrible, and I’m afraid if I don’t fix this feeling, I’m going to sabotage the greatest relationship I’ve ever been in. Are you sure you’re really in love with him and not in love with who he used to be, or just with being in a relationship?

I’m really in love with him, but lately I feel really bored too. He still tries to be romantic, takes me out on dates, buys me flowers, etc. When I think about seeing him in the evenings after work, though, I just feel like, ugh. If you’re not in love with the guy he is here and now, there’s nothing you can do to change that. You have the right to feel however you do, so stop feeling guilty, STAT!

Which means that I can date anyone from 38 years-old to 20 (yeeeesh.) and still be considered normal.

What I appreciate about the Dating Age Range Formula is that it gives me a nice, 18-year span to dabble within.

If we broke up it would be like a family memeber died. That he needs to be 100% sure that he wants to marry me, ect and he is not. After another week i emailed him and told him that i know we can work things out. How can he date someone after 2 months of breaking up when we were together for 4 years. It sounds like he's hurting alot, and boys seem to take stupid measures to stop the pain.

He said that he has not been the boyfriend that i deserve and has to "let me go" even though he doesn't want to. He deleted his facebook account cuz he said he doesn't want to know what I am doing cuz it would hurt too much. I think that pushed him more away.emailed me back saying we cant be together now, we would be miserable together. I can't even think of being with someone else right now. We were soo comfortable with one another and best friends. A rebound is a good distraction, but after a while he'll recognize it's hollowness.

According to a new survey, the ideal age difference between a couple is when the man is 4 years and (this is the sort of weird part) four months older than the woman.

Which means that my ideal mate was born sometime in February of 1982.

Got any hobbies and interests outside of work and your sweetie?

Don’t blame your boyfriend if you find it boring to come home straight after work every day!

In the long run, these kinds of negative relationship habits and patterns can wreak all kinds of relationship drama.