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How about at the very beginning -- the moment you lay eyes on a man you like, and want him to lay eyes back on you? I came back from the bathroom and saw a gorgeous woman chatting him up. I was too absorbed in this internal debate to actually put all that aside and approach someone new. Suffice it to say that sometimes the guy who doesn't knock your socks off the first time you lay eyes on him is the real catch. Well, here's that whole theory in a nutshell: When you hit on the wingman, you're in control of the situation.

There you are, out for the night, in your dry-clean-only jeans, wearing perfume, looking hot, smelling edible. I'd noticed her when she'd walked in, but I had quickly become distracted by another woman at the party whom I'd slept with once -- and never called after. This post is excerpted from Always Hit On the Wingman: and 9 Other Secret Rules for Getting the Love Life You Want by Jake.

You've just met a really pretty girl, so you want to do the right things when flirting with her.

Or maybe you've been watching someone for a while and you want to get confident about approaching her.

Some people think the wingman is the second fiddle. If two single, straight guys are out together, they're both wingmen. Watching a woman flirt with his friend has the same effect. When a guy gets the chance to talk to you, he should feel like it's a big opportunity.