i want my kids to play in a pool not a fire hydrant lol ... Hmm, this is going to be tough for me to answer totally unbiased because the idea of moving to the 'burbs and starting a family makes me cringe, it's just such an ordinary, boring life decision that it's hard for me not to get a little repulsed. First, I agree with you that NYC blows, I mean let's face it who wants to take a taxi and public transportation everywhere? Most people like driving cars and the best of all is in cities without overcrowding where you drive from Point A to Point B and it's very simple.

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Harsh realities made me defensive and stuck in denial.

she wants to stay in the city and i want nothing to do with the city..

I would like to get married , but want to live together first before getting married or starting a family. i hate trains , i hate taxis , i hate buses, i hate walking ..

Having a problem with current girlfriend , we been together 9 years , im 28 she is 25 , she moved to nyc about 2 years ago and i been living in NJ about an hour away.

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