Because it was attached to a column titled "Some Really Scary Sex" that I wrote a month ago, not that many of you would be likely to see it. For that reason, I've copied the letter and added the single response. My daughter, in her 30's was recently added to the registry. Handcuffed his hands behind his back, exposed his buttocks, poured oil on him and pretended to put a dildo style vibrator in his anus.

He told me that he’d been given a Sexual Offences Prevention Order (SOPO) for an indefinite period of time.

Luckily I had some knowledge of the law so I knew what he meant and what the implications of this were likely to be.

He made him sit in a chair and tied his hands but he says he did not molest or sexually abuse him.

His nephew's uncle, who was the chief of police, is the one who he says accused him of the molestation.

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Error Banner.fade_out.modal_overlay.modal_overlay .modal_wrapper.modal_overlay [email protected](max-width:630px)@media(max-width:630px).modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:hover:before. We have three children and my husband cant keep a job (he has a P. D), he cant pick up our kids from school, we've been thrown out of our home twice because we live by a school and police monitor our home. Once any person is on the registry, even Senator Bobby Scott from Virginia will tell you, once on the registry, basically a person's life is OVER. v=wtx T6R2s OZc If you or anyone you know is being abused by these insane laws, come visit our organization and tell your story. No, the reason there's now a sex offender registry in every state--most of these lists dating back only to the 1990s--is that sex offenders have become the focus of intense parental fear. But according to a study done by the hardly soft-on-crime George Sex Offender Registration Review Board, only 5% of the 17,000 sex offenders in that state were “clearly dangerous” to children, and among them, only 100 could be classified as “predators.” So here's an idea, says Adam Thierer, president of the Progress & Freedom Foundation, a market-oriented think tank: Why not make a “Scum of the Earth List” featuring only the scummy 5% and let the other 95% go streaking on their merry way? Article Controls This brings us to the third problem: The list keeps growing. Perhaps the gravest danger posed by the Sex Offender Registry is how very easily your own child could end up on it. Ricky was 16 when he met a girl named Amanda at a teen club. They hit it off, started dating and ended up having sex, twice. When she thought the better of it, she went to the police. Though Amanda's parents did not want to press charges, the district attorney did. An 18-year-old senior who has sex with his freshman girlfriend can end up on the list. The 161/2 year old took it to school a showed a couple friends who reported it. All of you seem to forget ,and don't list how you have hurt that child both physically and emotionally scard that child for life. And why you are being tract, and you must register for life . Sexting teens will find themselves there for 10 years and while the average age of first intercourse for women dropped to 15.2 thousands of young men are in prison for being a few years older than their girl friend.Why in Gods name isn't any common sense prevailing around this issue and when do we start letting people off the registry who are not a public threat? The First Reply: My neighbor across the street is on the Texas sex offender registry. Through promoting the injustices world wide we have been able to get laws changed. Citizens for Change, America you for this article, Thank you who ever you were for telling your stories. FORBES Oddly Enough Shred Your Sex Offender Map Lenore Skenazy, , AM EDT If anything, the sex offender registry is making our kids LESS safe. Who could blame us moms and dads, when we hear about kiddie kidnappings 24/7 on the news? A 19-year-old who sleeps with his underage sweetheart can end up there, too, even if they plan to get married. At the time of my conviction Massachusetts had a civil commitment law in place for which i was petitioned to undergo an evaluation to determine weather or not i was "sexually dangerous" and should be committed to a treatment facility for a period of one day to life for observation. My daughter was charged with intent to sexually arouse herself and degrade her daughter. You whine/ you feel you have been wrongfully labeled for life . Education is the key, and I call on all who read this site and are capable of professional writing to submit 5 article queries to magazines and newspapers that matter.He owns up to the abuse, and also says that the drugs was not an excuse for what he did.If you are dating a sex offender in California there are certain laws and procedures that you should be aware of.Please read the following and then make your comments: My husband is on the sex offender registry in Illinois, for 15 years for having a consensual relationship with me, his wife, when I was 16. "Law in origin was merely a codification of the power of dominant groups, and did not aim at anything that to a modern man would appear to be justice" - Bertrand Russell The story by the lady, and the story by the first commenter are stories which thousands and thousands of people all across this nation could mirror. No, the only easily available registry for all Americans to consult is the Sex Offender Registry. And so, in five states, a man can end up on the registry for having sex with a prostitute. After all, maybe one of the reasons Jaycee Duggard was allegedly imprisoned for 18 years by a known sex offender was that an overburdened police force couldn't concentrate on creepy Phillip Garrido and the hut behind his house. There are thousands and thousands of teens like him on the list. Why would she allow her to put it on video or a photo? You can hear them laughing and threatening to post on facebook.