While it’s good for newly divorced men to get your self-esteen back up to par, all of the superficial acts like getting a new hairstyle or a new wardrobe won’t do much internally.

To begin with, it would be unfair to expect something long-term from a man who's just turned single, possibly after a long time.

A sound piece of advice would be to take each day as it comes, and not rush into anything, even if it feels like heaven every time you are together.

If he genuinely is interested but wants to go slow and keep options open, what’s the best way to approach him?

First of all there’s no doubt the guy wants to get laid as much as possible, specially after a divorce thus the reason why he told you he wants to take things slow.

Having gone through an unsuccessful relationship, a recently divorced man is no different.

Being human, he is bound to reach out for company, and you may possibly figure on his radar. The precise reasons behind this may vary, but the vulnerable state of mind that follows a split is mostly the reason behind the man's inconsistent behavior.It is rightly said that when you're in love, you know it.For some of you, it may be too early a stage to decide whether this guy is for keeps, but there are certain unmistakable signs that tell you he's the one. He says he really wants to take things slow and not jump into anyth but that his goal is a relationship. So, he calls or texts throughout the day and takes me out. Do guys just keep a girl around for attention like girls do? We stayed up all night talking and eventually had awesome sex. He is one year divorced after his wife cheated and hadn’t slept with anyone… Since that day we have seen each other but nothing physical and only in public.For you women, this also means that you need to give a newly divorced man some time to be with his pals or alone. If you can take the time to heal, you’ll be able to move on and eventually have a healthy relationship.